Parents, when you go out of town without your teens, are you leaving your home vulnerable for parties that provide opportunities for underage alcohol consumption and illegal drug use?
I was in my deepest level of denial the weekend I attended an out of town wedding. It never occurred to me that my son would take advantage of my absence and violate my trust by using our home as the gathering place for all his friends. When I returned home earlier than expected, I discovered in my kitchen a quart of vodka that had been partially consumed. This incriminating evidence snapped me out of my denial and left no question that teenagers had been partying in my home. Later, my son came clean and confessed that he had used our home for a place to abuse drugs and alcohol while I was away.
Here are some ways that you can prevent this risky behavior from happening to you.
- Make responsible arrangements for your child to stay in a home that enforces the same rules as yours when you leave town.
- Collect and keep the copy of your teen’s house key while you are away.
- Change the code on your alarm system while you are gone.
- Ask your local police to make periodic drive-bys until you return.
- Prior to your trip, tell your teenager that the house will be patrolled.
No matter what takes you out of town, make these pro-active parenting tools a part of your plan so you don’t return to a disaster. Parents, you can potentially be held liable for accidents that occur as a result of underage drinking in your home!
Your time away will be better spent, if you know your teen has supervision while you are away and you have taken precautions against teenage parties occurring in your home.
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